Na
ga wace ta tsaya wa wani ubangidanta tana masa komai, da wanda ya shafi ofis da
ma wanda bai shafa ba. Kuma
ta shahara da kamun kai kamar dai yadda maigidan nata yake. Ashe aurensa take so. Duk wani abu da ya shafe shi
sai ta yi maza ta amshe. Yana
da iyalinsa da komai bai ma da tunanin aure, amma a hankali ta yi masa allura
ta wurin ƙanƙan da kai ga ladabi. Ai bayan wani ɗan lokaci
sai kawai muka ji cewa...
Zan Ƙara Aure //
28: Wata Kan Zama Dalili
Baban Manar Alƙasim
Zauren
Markazus Sunnah
Tarihi
bai dauko mana cewa Khadija RA ta yi sha'awar Annabi SAW ne ya sa ta nemi ya yi
kasuwanci a cikin dukiyarta don ta sami silar da za ta janyo shi kusa da ita
ba, a zahiri mun ga cewa amanarsa da wasu alamu da aka gaya mata cewa an gani
tare da shi su suka ja hankalinta, kuma ta yi dace da samun fiyayyen halitta,
haka a yau akan sami masu hali da suke ganin mutumin kirki sai su yi sha'awar a
ce ya zama maigidansu ba don suna sa rai da zai iya ba su wani abin duniya ba,
tsabar natsuwarsa ce da hankalinsa, ko kuma ilimi ko wata halitta da suke matuƙar buƙata
kuma suka tsince ta tare da shi.
.
Ko
anan ƙasar ma na san matan da suka dauki
malamai don su koyar da su a ƙarshe
suka aure malaman don ganin ƙimarsu
da hankalinsu, wannan kam ya faru, na taba zuwa wurin wani mai faci ban same
shi ba, nan ne ake ba da labarin cewa wata mata kusan duk kwana biyu za ta zo
faci ko ƙarin iska, a ƙarshe dai ta aure shi ta raba shi da
sana'ar, ya zama babban mutum sai fantamawarsa yake yi, ita tana cikin farin
ciki cewa ta sami mijin aure, ba kudinsa ta gani ba bare a ce tana nadama ashe
bai da komai, har wurin sana'arsa ta bi shi ta dauko shi.
.
Na
kuma taɓa
ganin wani mutum ban san inda ya san ni ba, amma ya same ni shi da matarsa a
mota, hajiya ce, ta yaba wa hankalinsa ta aure shi, sai hayayyafa take ta yi
masa, a lokacin sun zo wurina ne wai tana son ta tura shi karatu waje, na gaya
musu gaskiya ba aikina ba ne ban ma san yadda ake yi ba, ka san mu da son jin ƙwab, na ce duk yaran da na gani a mota
nasu ne? Ya tabbatar min da cewa ita ta haifa masa, kuma tana bala'in son sa,
na ce me ya sa to take ƙoƙarin tura shi waje? Ya ce ai in ya tafi
ne zai sami dalilin da zai dauko su, Inyamura ce amma ta san abinda take yi
sosai.
.
To
duk irin waɗannan in ka tattara sai ka taras ƙila mutum ma yana da aure, wata ta fito
masa kuma ta ce ba ta son kowa sai shi. A
ƙarshe kuma ta aure shi, kenan tsayuwarta
da amfani da damarta ya zama dalilin ƙara
aure kenan, mun karanta tarihi inda wata ta ta zo fadar Annabi SAW ta ce masa
ta ba shi kanta ya aura, yana da matansa, amma da ta tsaya ƙyam a ƙarshe
dai auren an yi bayan wani ɗan lokaci, ta auri wani can
daban amma zuciyarta tana tare da Annabi SAW, kuma sai da ya ƙara auren da ita.
.
Na
ga wace ta tsaya wa wani ubangidanta tana masa komai, da wanda ya shafi ofis da
ma wanda bai shafa ba. Kuma
ta shahara da kamun kai kamar dai yadda maigidan nata yake. Ashe aurensa take so. Duk wani abu da ya shafe shi
sai ta yi maza ta amshe. Yana
da iyalinsa da komai bai ma da tunanin aure, amma a hankali ta yi masa allura
ta wurin ƙanƙan da kai ga ladabi. Ai bayan wani ɗan lokaci
sai kawai muka ji cewa ya yaba da hankalinta har ma ya tafi wurin mahaifa sun amince masa da fito
kawai, sai mu'amallarta da shi ta zama dalilin ƙara
aurensa.
.
Ba
na gardamar cewa wasu matan in suka yi arziƙi
sukan nemi wani ɗan tagaje-tagajen namiji don
su sami damar yin abinda suke so ba tare da takura ba, ko kuma shi kansa su riƙa juya shi yadda suke so, sau daya dai
na taba jin wata mata wai ta yi wata attajira maganar banza, ta kira ta da wani
suna wanda bai mata daɗi ba, don haka ta yi amfani
da kudinta ta aure mata miji kuma ta kore ta, wannan bai cika faruwa ba, amma
abinda muke ƙoƙarin fitarwa anan shi ne, za a iya samun
mutum da iyalinsa bai da niyyar ƙara
aure sai wata mace ta fito masa ta hanyar da take ganin za ta ci nasara kuma ta
aure shi din.
.
Na
dai sami wasu da suke aiki tare, kullum tana kawo masa kukan matsalolin rayuwa
tsakaninta da maigidanta, shi ne yake ƙoƙarin sulhunta su, ko me ya faru oho,
auren ya baci kuma sun auri junansu, ƙila
ta amince da shi ne bisa maganganunsa da yadda yake ƙoƙarin
sulhunta su din, da tsammanin samun sauƙi
sama da tsohon mijinta wanda ya yi ta shiga tsakaninsu, da farko bai da niyyar
aure, amma yanayin yadda ta tsaya a kansa da buƙatun
sai ta aure shi din ya sa ya yanke hukuncin auren nata, komai na iya zama
babban dalilin da zai sa maigida ya buƙaci ƙarin aure.
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