Shin Uwa Ce Take Da Haƙƙin Riƙe Yara Bayan Mutuwar Aure Ko Mahaifinsu?

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Assalamu Alaikum. Mal. Barka da yau da fatan anyi sallah lafiya. Tambayata ita ce shin idan mutum ya rabu da matarshi sannan akwai 'ya'ya tsakaninsu shin wa keda haƙƙin rike yaran domin kula da tarbiyarsu? Bayan haka ita matar ta yi aure sannan shi miji bai gamsu da yana yin natsuwarta ba. Nagode a huta lfy.

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Wa alaikumus salam wa rahmatullah.

Shi haƙƙin rikon yaro bayan rabuwar aure yana wuyan mahaifiyar yaron ne, mutukar dai ba a samu wata matsalar da za ta hana ita uwar ɗaukar dawainiyar kulawa da yaron ba.

Dalilin da ya sa ake fara gabatar da uwa fiye da uban yaro awannan matakin saboda ita uwa tafi uban yaro sanin halayensa da kuma hanyar da za ta bi wajen tarbiyyantar da yaron bisa kyawawar dabi'a.

Kuma ita uwa tafi uban yaro nuna tausayi da tausasawa da soyayya da hakuri da juriya wajen ɗaukar wahalhalun kulawa da rayuwar yaro. Misali kamar irinsu wanka da wanki da ɗaukar yaro zuwa duk inda za taje.

Sayyiduna Abdullahi bn Amr bn Al aas (Allah ya yarda dasu) ya ruwaito cewa "Wata mata tazo wajen Manzon Allah ﷺ sai ta ce masa "Ya Rasulallahi wannan yarona ne. Cikina ya kasance shi ne wajen ɗaukarsa (Madaukinsa) Kan cinyata ya kasance shi ne matattarinsa, kuma nonona ya kasance shi ne abin shansa, amma yanzu kuma mahaifinsa (wato mijina wanda muka rabu) yazo yana raya cewar zai kwaceshi daga gareni".

Sai Manzon Allah ﷺ ya ce mata "KE KIKA FI CHANCHANTA DA RIKESHI, MUTUKAR BAKIYI AURE BA".

Imamu Ahmad da Abu Dawud da Baihaƙiy da Hakim ne suka ruwaitoshi.

Amma akwai sharudan da shari'a ta shimfida kafin ita kanta uwar ta chanchanta da rikon yaron. Daga cikin sharudan nan akwai:

1. HANKALI: Matar da ta samu tabuwar hankali ba ta chanchanta a bar mata rikon yaro ko yara ba.

2. IKON BAYAR DA TARBIYYAH: Idan uwar ta kasance ita kanta ba ta da tarbiyyah, to ba ta chanchanta da rikon yaro ba, domin ita kanta ba ta da tarbiyyah ballantana har ta bayar.

3. RIKON AMANA DA KYAWUN HALAYE: Idan ta kasance fasiƙa ko barauniya, ko mai bayyanar da ayyukan saɓon Allah, to ba ta chanchanta abar mata rikon yaro ba.

4. MUSULUNCI: mafiya rinjayen maluman musulunci sun tafi a kan cewa bai halatta abar wa mace kafira tarbiyyar yaro Ƙarami ba.

5. 'YANCI: Bai halatta ga mace baiwa ta rike yaro Ƙarami ba, saboda rashin isassun lokutan kulawa da rayuwar yaron.

6. RASHIN YIN AURE: Idan ta yi aure to shikenan haƙƙin kulawa da yaron ya faɗi daga kanta.

Idan ta kasance kamar yadda ka faɗa cewar ba ka gamsu da yana yin tatbiyyarta ba, to abin da yafi dacewa shi ne abar yaron akarkashin kulawar kakarsa ta bangaren uwa, ko 'yar uwar mahaifiyar yaron.

WALLAHU A'ALAM.

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