𝐓𝐀𝐌𝐁𝐀𝐘𝐀❓
Assalamu Alaikum. Mal. Barka da yau
da fatan anyi sallah lafiya. Tambayata ita ce shin idan mutum ya rabu da
matarshi sannan akwai 'ya'ya tsakaninsu shin wa keda haƙƙin rike yaran domin
kula da tarbiyarsu? Bayan haka ita matar ta yi aure sannan shi miji bai gamsu
da yana yin natsuwarta ba. Nagode a huta lfy.
𝐀𝐌𝐒𝐀❗️
Wa alaikumus salam wa rahmatullah.
Shi haƙƙin rikon yaro bayan rabuwar
aure yana wuyan mahaifiyar yaron ne, mutukar dai ba a samu wata matsalar da za
ta hana ita uwar ɗaukar dawainiyar kulawa da yaron ba.
Dalilin da ya sa ake fara gabatar
da uwa fiye da uban yaro awannan matakin saboda ita uwa tafi uban yaro sanin
halayensa da kuma hanyar da za ta bi wajen tarbiyyantar da yaron bisa kyawawar
dabi'a.
Kuma ita uwa tafi uban yaro nuna
tausayi da tausasawa da soyayya da hakuri da juriya wajen ɗaukar wahalhalun
kulawa da rayuwar yaro. Misali kamar irinsu wanka da wanki da ɗaukar yaro zuwa
duk inda za taje.
Sayyiduna Abdullahi bn Amr bn Al
aas (Allah ya yarda dasu) ya ruwaito cewa "Wata mata tazo wajen Manzon
Allah ﷺ sai ta ce masa "Ya Rasulallahi wannan yarona ne. Cikina ya kasance
shi ne wajen ɗaukarsa (Madaukinsa) Kan cinyata ya kasance shi ne matattarinsa,
kuma nonona ya kasance shi ne abin shansa, amma yanzu kuma mahaifinsa (wato
mijina wanda muka rabu) yazo yana raya cewar zai kwaceshi daga gareni".
Sai Manzon Allah ﷺ ya ce mata
"KE KIKA FI CHANCHANTA DA RIKESHI, MUTUKAR BAKIYI AURE BA".
Imamu Ahmad da Abu Dawud da Baihaƙiy
da Hakim ne suka ruwaitoshi.
Amma akwai sharudan da shari'a ta
shimfida kafin ita kanta uwar ta chanchanta da rikon yaron. Daga cikin sharudan
nan akwai:
1. HANKALI: Matar da ta samu
tabuwar hankali ba ta chanchanta a bar mata rikon yaro ko yara ba.
2. IKON BAYAR DA TARBIYYAH: Idan
uwar ta kasance ita kanta ba ta da tarbiyyah, to ba ta chanchanta da rikon yaro
ba, domin ita kanta ba ta da tarbiyyah ballantana har ta bayar.
3. RIKON AMANA DA KYAWUN HALAYE:
Idan ta kasance fasiƙa ko barauniya, ko mai bayyanar da ayyukan saɓon Allah, to
ba ta chanchanta abar mata rikon yaro ba.
4. MUSULUNCI: mafiya rinjayen
maluman musulunci sun tafi a kan cewa bai halatta abar wa mace kafira tarbiyyar
yaro Ƙarami ba.
5. 'YANCI: Bai halatta ga mace
baiwa ta rike yaro Ƙarami ba, saboda rashin isassun lokutan kulawa da rayuwar
yaron.
6. RASHIN YIN AURE: Idan ta yi aure
to shikenan haƙƙin kulawa da yaron ya faɗi daga kanta.
Idan ta kasance kamar yadda ka faɗa
cewar ba ka gamsu da yana yin tatbiyyarta ba, to abin da yafi dacewa shi ne
abar yaron akarkashin kulawar kakarsa ta bangaren uwa, ko 'yar uwar mahaifiyar
yaron.
WALLAHU A'ALAM.
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