𝐓𝐀𝐌𝐁𝐀𝐘𝐀❓
Assalamu alaykum Mace ce iyayenta
suka aurar da ita ga wanda bata so yanzu wata tare kenan ba'a tare ba ita
yarinyar tana zaune a gidan iyayenta da sunan aure sabida shi wanda aka daura
mata aure da shi baya ma kasar baki ɗaya
Gashi ita yarinyar bata da kwanciyar hankali shin yaya matsayin wannan auren?
𝐀𝐌𝐒𝐀❗️
Waalaikumussalamu. To bayin Allah
da farko dai Ya kamata ku sani babu auren dole a musulunci. Annabi Sallallahu
Alaihi Wasallam ya hana iyayen mace budurwa ko waliyyanta su aurar da ita ga
wanda bata so, Amma idan yarinyar 'karamace wacce bata balagaba to mahaifinta
yana da ikon aurar da ita domin ita babu bukatar a nemi izininta kamar yadda
malamai sukace.
Amma idan budurwace wacce ta
balaga to ita baya halatta a bada aurenta ba tare da neman yardarta ba sabida
faɗin Manzon Allah
Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam cewa BA A AURAR DA BUDURWA SAI AN NEMI AMINCEWARTA
(IZININTA) SAI SAHABBAI SUKACE YAYA IZININTA YAKE? SAI ANNABI ﷺ YACE SHINE TAYI SHIRU. (Bukhari
da muslim).
Ya taɓa faruwa a lokacin manzon Allah Sallallahu
Alaihi Wasallam WANI MAHAIFI YA YIWA ÝARSA AUREN DOLE SAI TAKAI KUKANTA GURIN
MANZON ALLAH ﷺ SAI
MANZON ALLAH YA BATA ZAƁI MA'ANA IDAN TANA SON SA TAJE TA ZAUNA DASHI IDAN KUMA BATA
SON SA SAI A RABA AUREN, SAI ITA MATAR ta ce TA AMINCE DA ZAƁIN
MAHAIFINTA AMMA DAMAN TANA SON MATA SU SANI CEWA IYAYENSU ba su DA IKON SUYI
MUSU AUREN DOLE (Ibn maja)
Wannan yake nuna mana baya
halatta a aurar da mace ga wani namiji har sai an nemi yardar ita matar matukar
dai ta zama budurwa to sai an kirayeta an nemi yardarta idan tayi shiru irin
shirunnan na jin kunya wanda yake nuna cewa ta amince to shikenan sai a ba su
dama su fa fahimci juna ayi musu aure.
Amma idan ta nuna alamun cewa
bata sonsa to ba ya halatta a tilasta
mata cewa dole sai ta aure shi wannan haramunne a musulunci.
Idan kuma an riga an ɗaura mata auren da wanda
bata so, to anan wajen ita yarinyar tana da zaɓi
guda biyu na farko shine Idan ta amince ta yarda zata zauna da mijin to
shikenan auren ya inganta, zaɓi
na biyu idan yarinyar ta ce ita bata son sa to auren 'bataccene ma'ana be
ingantaba kamar yadda hadisin dake sama ya tabbatar.
Akwai hadisi daya tabbata cewa
khansa'a bnt khudaam Al'ansariyya babanta ya aurar da ita lokacin tana bazawara
ita kuma bata son auren. Saitaje wajen Annabi ta sanar dashi. Sai ya raba auren.
Irwa'ul galeel 1830.
Sabida haka ina kira ga yarinyar
data kwantar da hankalinta wannan aure idan har tilasta mata aka yi kuma har
yanzu bata sonsa to auren ba ingantaccen aure bane, sai dai kuma duk da haka
yanzu ba itace take da ikon tabbatar da rashin ingancin auren ba a'a zuwa
zatayi ta kai kara inda ake da ikon warware aure kamar wajen iyayen mahaifinta
ko kuma kotun musulunci, wannan itace hanyar da ya kamata tabi tabbas idan
takai kara ɗaya daga
cikin waɗannan
guraren matukar ta sanar dasu cewa ita bata son wanda aka aura mata kuma ba da
amincewarta aka yi aurenba, na tabbata zasu rusa auren domin daman auren
bataccen aure ne. wannan shine mafi alkhairi a wajenta kuma hakan baya nuna
cewa ta bujirewa iyayenta ko ta tozarta iyayenta da ýan'uwanta.
Sa'annan shima wanda aka aurawa ɗin yana da laifi mutukar
yasan bata sonsa. Domin an haɗa
kai dashi an zalunceta kenan.
Abinda ya dace shine idan ya
fuskanci bata sonsa da gaske to ya janye ya kyaleta. Idan ya yi haka to tabbas
zai samu sakamako mai kyau.
Ahmad ya ruwaito wani hadisi Annabi
Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam yake cewa "Wanda yabar wani abu saboda Allah, Allah
zai musanya masa da wanda ya fishi alheri
Lallai ya kamata iyayenmu ku gane
cewa shi Auren dole ba koyarwar musulunci bane Amma duk da haka idan ýarku tazo
muku da mutuminda baku aminta da addininsa ba to anan baya halatta ku aura mata
shi matukar bashi da tarbiyya duk yadda takai da son sa harammune ku biye mata
WALLAHU A'ALAM
Zauren Fatawoyi Bisa Alkur'ani Da
Sunnah.
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