𝐓𝐀𝐌𝐁𝐀𝐘𝐀❓
Assalamu
Alaikum. Menene matsayin maganin ƙarin ƙarfi da sabon ango yake sha kafin ranar
tarewa?
𝐀𝐌𝐒𝐀❗️
Wa Alaikumus
Salaam Wa Rahmatul Laah.
Abu na-farko
da malamai suka ambato a cikin Ladubban Tarewar Aure shi ne
Ango ya
tausasa wa amarya a daren farko: Saboda hadisin Asmaa’u Bint Yazeed (Radiyal
Laahu Anhaa) wadda ta ce: Na yi wa A’ishah (Radiyal Laahu Anhaa) ado da kayan
kwalliya a ranar tarewarta domin Manzon Allaah (Sallal Laahu Alaihi Wa Alihi Wa
Sallam), sannan na kira shi domin ya ganta ba a cikin hijabi ko lulluɓi ba. Sai ya zo da ƙwaryar
madara, kuma ya zauna kusa da ita. Ya sha, sannan ya miƙa mata. Sai ta sunkuyar
da kanta saboda kunya. Ni kuma sai na tsawace ta, na ce:
خُذِي مِنْ يَدِ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ
Ki karɓa daga hannun Annabi
(Sallal Laahu Alaihi wa Alihi wa Sallam)!
Sai ta karɓa, ta sha ɗan kaɗan. (Al-Imaam Ahmad ya
fitar da shi, kuma Al-Munziriy ya ce: Yana da isnadi nagartacce, in ji
Al-Albaaniy a cikin Adaabuz Zifaaf).
Daga wannan
hadisin ya fito fili cewa
1. Abu ne mai
kyau a yi wa amarya kwalliya a ranar da za a kai ta ta tare a gidan angonta.
Amma a kula, kar kwalliyar ta wuce ƙa’ida
da dokokin da shari’ar
musulunci ta shimfiɗa.
2. Babu sanya
hijabi ko lulluɓi ga
amarya a lokacin da ango zai shiga ɗakinta
a ranar tarewa.
3. Ƙin
yin maganar amarya ga ango da al’adar
sayen-baki duk ba koyarwar Sunnah ba ce.
4. Amarya ta
zama mai kunya a ranar tarewarta abu ne mai kyau wanda kuma ya dace da Sunnah.
5. Miji ya
shiga wurin amarya da wani abin ci na marmari, kamar kazar amarya ta al’ada,
daidai ne.
6. Miji ya yi ƙoƙarin
tausasawa da kwantar da hankalin amarya da natsar da zuciyarta a wannan ranar Sunnah
ne.
A ƙarƙashin
wannan:
(i) Dole ne
ango ya zama mai lura da taka-tsantsan a wurin saduwa da amarya a karon farko,
musamman sabuwar budurwa.
(ii) Lallai ya
tabbatar ya gama motsar da sha’awarta da farko kafin farawa, kuma ya yi mata a
hankali, ban da gaggawa.
(iii) Galibi a
wannan ranar tana cikin tsoro da rashin natsuwa da damuwa saboda rashin sanin
yadda abin zai kasance a tsakaninsu, don haka ba lallai ya samu haɗin kanta a ranar ba.
(iv) In aka
samu haka, lallai ya yi haƙuri har zuwa lokacin da al’amura za su daidaita, ya
samu haɗin kanta ga
buƙatarsa.
(v) Zai iya
yiwuwa cewa a saduwar farko ya ji mata ciwo a wurin, don haka dole ne ya ba ta
lokaci har ta samu wurin ya warke kafin ya dawo ya cigaba.
Don Allaah!
Wanda ya je ya sha maganin ƙarin ƙarfi tun kafin ranar tarewa ta yaya zai
iya tuna waɗannan
abubuwan, balle har ya tausaya wa amaryarsa budurwa sabuwar balaga?
Yaushe zai san
cewa tana cikin ciwo da raɗaɗi ko zogi a bayan saduwar
farko, balle har ya iya barin wai sai ta warke kafin ya komo?
Kuma menene
fa’idar maganin da tun a farkon haɗuwa
zai haifar da ƙyama da tsoron amarya ga ango waɗanda
kuma wai auren soyayya aka yi musu?!
A gaskiya
muhimmin abu ne, musamman a wannan zamanin, a riƙa zaunar da matasa masu neman auren juna,
ana wayar musu da kai a kan waɗannan
abubuwa tun kafin tarewa.
Kuma dole ne
mutanenmu su san cewa, yawancin waɗannan
magungunan suna da ɓarna
ko ta’adi da suke haifarwa ga lafiyar jiki. Allaah ya datar da mu
WALLAHU A'ALAM
Shaikh
Muhammad Abdullaah Assalafiy
Zauren Fatawoyi
Bisa Alkur'ani Da Sunnah.
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