𝐓𝐀𝐌𝐁𝐀𝐘𝐀❓
As-Salaam Alaikum Wa Rahmatul
Laah. Ina da matsala da dangin mijina, suna zargin wai na mallake ɗan’uwansu, har abin ya
kai ba ma magana da su. To, ko ya halatta in nemi ya sake ni don kauce wa ƙiyayyarsu?
𝐀𝐌𝐒𝐀❗️
Wa Alaikumus Salaam Wa Rahmatul
Laah Wa Barakaatuh.
Samun matsala da dangin miji ba
shi daga cikin dalilan da suke halatta miki neman saki, domin ai ba su ke auren
ki ba.
Mallake miji kuma abu ne mai kyau
matuƙar
dai kin yi shi ta hanyoyi na halal ne, ba na haram ba.
Hanyoyin mallake miji na halal
sun haɗa da: Gyara
abinci, iya kwalliya, sakin fuska da murmushi, kare masa kanki da gidansa da
dukiyarsa, mutunta iyayensa da danginsa da sauran iyalinsa, zama cikin shirin
biya masa buƙatarsa a sadda da yadda ya ke so, bisa dacewa da Shari’a, da sauransu.
Amma hanyoyin da wasu mata ke bi
don mallake miji a zamanin yau, kamar ta zuwa wurin bokaye ko amfani da
magungunan da suke kira maganin mata, wannan kam haram ne, domin sihiri ne, shi
kuma kafirci ne. Allaah ya kiyaye.
(Dubi littafin Maganin Mata da na
rubuta a kan haka).
Hanyar da ta dace ki bi don
warware wannan matsalar in shaa’al Laah ita ce
(i) Yawaita bayar da kyauta da
alheri gare su da gwargwadon ikonki da ƙarfinki. Kina iya roƙon
mijinki don ya taimaka miki a kan haka, idan ba ki da ƙarfi.
(ii) Idan wannan bai ci ba, sai
ki sanar da mijinki halin da ake ciki don ya taimaka miki a warware matsalar,
don shi ya fi ki sanin danginsa.
(iii) Idan wannan bai biya buƙata
ba, sai ki kai maganar ga manyansa, waɗanda
su ke jagorori a gidan, don su taimaka.
(iv) Idan duk wannan bai samar da
mafita ba, kina iya ɗaukar
maganar zuwa ga manyanki domin su zauna da manyan gidan mijinki a kan matsalar.
(v) Idan hakan bai samar da
mafita ba to, in shaa’al Laahu Alƙalin kotun musulunci a inda ku ke ba zai
rasa abin yi ba don taimaka miki.
Amma dai kafin a kai ga duk
wannan, hanya mafi kyau ita ce yin haƙuri da juriya, tare da yawaita sadar da
alheri gare su, musamman a lokacin da suka munana miki. Allaah Ta’aala ya ce
وَلَا
تَسۡتَوِی ٱلۡحَسَنَةُ وَلَا ٱلسَّیِّئَةُۚ ٱدۡفَعۡ بِٱلَّتِی هِیَ أَحۡسَنُ فَإِذَا ٱلَّذِی بَیۡنَكَ وَبَیۡنَهُۥ عَدَ ٰوَةࣱ كَأَنَّهُۥ وَلِیٌّ حَمِیمࣱ ٤٣
وَمَا یُلَقَّىٰهَاۤ إِلَّا ٱلَّذِینَ صَبَرُوا۟ وَمَا یُلَقَّىٰهَاۤ إِلَّا ذُو حَظٍّ عَظِیمࣲ ٥٣
Kyakkyawan aiki ba ya yin daidai
da mummunan aiki. Ka tunkuɗe
mummunan da wanda yake shi ne kyakkyawa, sai ka ga wanda ya ke akwai gaba a
tsakanin kai da shi ya koma kamar wani majibinci mai matuƙar ƙauna.
Amma babu mai samun wannan sai waɗanda
suka yi haƙuri,
kuma babu mai samun sa sai wanda ke da rabo mai girma.
(Surah Fussilat: 34-35)
Allaah ya shirye mu tare da su,
kuma ya sa duk mu iya jurewa a kan bin dokokinsa.
WALLAHU A'ALAM
Sheikh Muhammad Abdullaah Assalafiy,
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Zauren Fatawoyi Bisa Alkur'ani Da
Sunnah.
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