TAMBAYA (60)❓
Assalamu Alaikum. Ina yini malam. Dan Allah Malam ina da
tambaya mene hukuncin matar auran datayi Besty Kuma Suna waya kuma sunayin
chat. Kuma ba ɗan
uwan tah bane ba muharramin tabane
AMSA❗
Bai halatta ta dinga kebewa da wani Besty har ma su dinga
waya ko chatting, saboda ba halayya ce ta Mar'atus Saliha ba saboda wannan zai
zama silar budewa shaidan kofa wanda karshen al'amarin shine da na sani (wato
zina)
Allah SWT yace;
( وَلَا
تَقْرَبُوا الزِّنَا ۖ إِنَّهُ كَانَ فَاحِشَةً وَسَاءَ سَبِيلًا
)
الإسراء
(32) Al-Israa
Kuma kada ku kusanci zina. Lalle ne ita ta kasance alfãsha
ce kuma tã mũnãna ga zama hanya.
Wannan wayar da suke hanyace da take bayyana kusantuwa zuwa
ga aikata zina kuma a dabi'ance sannan a al'adance ma bai dace ba ballantana
kuma a addinance
Tabbas duk ranar da asirinta ya tonu, indai har mijinta yana
da kishi to bazai ji dadin hakan ba, to indai har mijin ta bazai so ba ina kuma
ga wanda ya haramta hakan
Ya kamata mata su gane cewar shi fa aure ba abune na wasa
ba, kuma duk ana samun irin wannan matsalar ne tun daga hanyoyin da ake bi
wajen neman auren har zuwa lokacin da mutum zai je makarantar koyon zaman
auratayya
Mun tsinci kanmu a wani zamani wanda idan da zaka jera
mataye da mazajen aure 10 to da kyar ka samu 3 wadanda zasu nuna maka shaida
wato certificate din da suka samu na zuwa makarantar koyon zamantakewar aure
Wannan qalubale ne a garemu baki daya
Akan wannan gaba ya dace na ja hankalin gwauro da gwauruwa
da sauran ma'aurata cewar ya zama wajibi mu dinga karanta littattafan addinin
musulunci musamman wadanda suke da alaqa da rayuwar auratayya
Domin sanin mu'amalar auratayya a addinance sai a karanta ko
a koyi littafin "Guidelines To Intimacy In Islam" (Tafarkin rayuwar
auratayya a musulunci), wallafar Muhammad Shoiab Ibn Ibrahim Adam (Kamar yanda
Mufti Muhammad Ibn Adam Alkhawthary ya fitar a littafinsa), wanda littafi ne da
ya tattaro bayanai da hujjoji daga Qur'ani da Hadisai akan yanda ake rayuwar
mu'amalar aure, kamar yanda Annabi SAW ya yi ga iyalansa su Nana Aisha RA da
sauransu
Sai kuma aje a koyi wani littafi wanda Imam Ibn al-Qayyim
al-Jauziyya (Rahimahullah) ya rubuta mai suna; "Newborn Baby Guide"
{Tuhfatul Maudud bi ahkam al-Maulud} (Shiriya ga jariri), a ciki yayi bayani
daki-daki akan hanyoyin da ake bi don samun da nagari har zuwa abin da za'ayi
bayan an haifeshi, ya rubuta littafin ne a matsayin kyauta ga yar uwarsa wadda
talauci ya sa bai iya siyan tsaraba ga jaririn da ta haifa ba, sai ya rubuta
littafin a matsayin tsaraba ga yan uwa musulmi baki daya
Haka kuma ya kamata a koyi littafin: "Natural Blood of
Women" (Hukunce-hukuncen jinin mata) wallafar Shaykh Muhammed Ibn Saleh
al-Uthaymeen (Rahimahullah), wanda abin kunya da takaice sun kare ga macen da
ta yi aure amman daga ita har mijinta ba su san menene banbanci tsakanin jinin
Istihadah da jinin Nifass ba
Sannan kuma dai akwai wani littafi da maza yakamata su
karanta mai suna: "Men Around The Messenger, SAW" {Rijalu Haulal
Rasul} (Maza A Kewaye Da Ma'aiki SAW), wallafar Khalid Muhammad Khalid, su kuma
mata sai su karanta: "Women Around The Messenger, SAW" {Nisa'u Haulal
Rasul} (Yanda Mata Suke Koyi Da Ma'aiki, SAW), wallafar Muhammad Ali Khutb
Sannan kuma uwa uba shine mu koyi sallah kamar yanda Annabi
SAW ya koyar, da fadinsa SAW "Sallu kama ra'ayta muni usalli" bi ma'ana
"Kuyi sallah kamar yanda kuka ga ina yi", domin kuwa duk wanda yake
sallah to dayan abu biyu ne; in ma dai a a'adance yake yi (wato ya gani ana yi
ne shima yake kwaikwayo) ko kuma a sunnance ta hanyar karanta littafin
"Sifatu Salatin Naby" {The Description of the Prophet's Prayer}
(Suffar yanda Annabi SAW yake sallah) wallafar Shaikh Muhaddith, Mujaddid
Muhammad Ibn Nuhu Nasiriddin Albany (Rahimahullah). Ya kawo yanda Annabi SAW ya
koyar da sallah da hujjoji a cikin sahihan hadisai
Don hakan wadannan sune a taqaice shawararin da zan baki
tare da sauran gwauraye. Muna roqon Allah ya bamu abokan zama nagari wadanda
zamu zauna tun anan duniya har zuwa gidan Aljannah
Wallahu ta'ala a'alam
Amsawa;
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