Mijina Ya Fita Daga Raina

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    As-Salaam Alaikum Wa Rahmatul Laah. Mun samu matsala da mijina ne: Ba ma shiri yau kusan watanni biyu ke nan, yanzu har ya fara fita daga raina saboda halin ko-in-kula da yake nuna min. Ina mafita?

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    Wa Alaikumus Salaam Wa Rahmatul Laah Wa Barakaatuh.

    Yanzu wannan mai tambayar - ko wata ma ba ita ba - za ta iya tambayar cewa: ‘Mun samu matsala da mahaifina?’ Har da bayanin cewa: ‘Ba ma shiri da shi mahaifin nawa na kusan watanni biyu?’ Sannan kuma har da cewa: ‘Yanzu mahaifin har ya fara fita daga raina saboda halin ko-in-kula da yake nuna min?!’

    Na san abu ne mawuyaci wannan tambayar ta fito daga wata mace, ba a kan mahaifi ko mahaifiyarta ba, har ma a kan yayyi ma abu ne ba mai yiwuwa ba, inshaa’Allaah. Saboda yanayin yadda gidajenmu suka ginu a kan tarbiyya da girmama iyaye da sauran na-gaba. To, amma meyasa ake samun hakan a kan miji, alhali kuwa miji ya fi mahaifi matsayi a mahangar addininmu na musulunci?!

    Manzon Allaah (Sallal Laahu Alaihi Wa Alihi Wa Sallam) ya faɗa wa wata mace matsayin mijinta a wurinta, inda ya ce: Shi ne Aljannarki kuma shi ne wutarki! Haka kuma da aka tambaye shi a kan mafi girman haƙƙi a kan mace sai ya ce: Mijinta. Bai ambaci mahaifinta ko mahaifiyarta ba, balle kuma ƙawarta ba!

    Don haka, bai kamata duk mai imani ya yi wasa da abin da Annabi (Sallal Laahu Alaihi Wa Alihi Wa Sallam) ya ce: Shi ne Aljannarsa ko Wutarsa ba, matuƙar dai akwai imani da tunani da hangen-nesa.

    Yawanci abin da ke saka mata a cikin wannan matsalar shi ne irin maganar da suka gada daga wasu yayyi da ƙawayensu cewa: MIJI GOMA BA UBA GOMA BA NE! Watau ana iya sauya miji har sau goma, amma ba a iya sauya uba! Haka ne. Amma dai shi ma miji ba kanwar lasa ba ne, kuma ba abin wasa ba ne, kamar yadda hadisan da suka gabata suka nuna.

    Don haka, mafita a ganina kawai ita ce: Idan kin san akwai wani abu da ke kike aikatawa ko wanda kika aikata da ya janyo wannan rashin shirin a tsakaninku, to wajibi ne ki yi gaggawar komawa ki janye wannan abin domin a cigaba da rayuwa, kar Aljannarki ta samu matsala.

    Idan kuma shi ne yake da laifi, to duk da haka dai gara ki yi haƙurin zama tare da shi domin a samu maslaha, irin yadda za ki yi in da mahaifinki ne a matsayinsa. Gudun kar Aljannarki ta samu matsala.

    Idan kuma shi ne yake zaluncin da har ba za ki iya jurewa ba, to har hakan dai bai kamata ya zama babu shiri ba. Matakan sulhu ya kamata ku ɗauka domin samun mafita.

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