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Assalamualaikum warahmatullah Malam barka da safiya. Dan Allah Ina da tambaya malam yarinyace akayi mata fyaɗe tun tana shekarun kuruciya kamar shekara 8 malam to wannan hymen ɗin da ake magana ita lokacin tana dashine tun farkon halittarta kokuma sai bayan yarinya ta girma ake halittarsa a jikinta ko Kuma dama tun haihuwa. To malam ita wannan yarinyar za'ace bata da budurci ne idan anyi aurenta kokuma tana dashi? Malam sai kaban shawarar yaya zanyi Dan Allah. Wassalamu alaikum.
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Walaikumussalamu Hymen ɗin ko ince tantanin budurcin bawai sai ta girma yake samuwa ba a'a tun
asali daman tana dashi, Sannan dangane da Budurcin kansa Shi budurcin mace
fahimtarsa ta kasu kashi kashi yadda wasu suka fahimci budurci ba haka wasu
suka fahimta ba misali Wasu na da fahimtar duk matar da Al'aurar namiji bata taɓa shiga al'aurata ba to tana nan a matsayinta na budurwa, wasu kuma su
a wajensu koda ɗan yatsa ne ya shigeta to ta tashi daga
budurwa, Wasu kuma su dazarar mace ta wuce wasu shekaru koda bata taɓa aure ba to su a wajensu ta tashi daga budurwa Akwai kuma masu ganin
cewa duk cikakkiyar budurwa sai ta zubar da jini a ranar da aka fara jima'i da
ita kuma wannan fahimtar tafi shahara a cikin mutana domin bama 'kabilar hausa
ba Hatta Larabawa dausauran 'kabilu daban-daban duk suna da wannan fahimtar,
Sabida wannan dalilin zanyi ɗan 'karin haske Akan wasu hanyoyi da akan iya
rasa budurci bawai sai ta hanyar jima'i ko fyaɗe kaɗai ba, Sannan Ba duk mata ke da wannan hymen ɗin ba, Hakanan kuma ita fatar haymen ɗin tasha banban daga wata matar zuwa wata misali kamar kaurin fata wata
tana da kaurin fata wata kuma bata da kaurin fata To itama hymen haka take idan
mace hymen ɗinta mai kauri ce to abune mai wuya ta iya buɗewa da wuri Amma idan mara kauri ce to wasu ďabi'u na iya sawa ta buɗe ta yadda budurcin zai iya tafiya ba tare da an mata fyaɗe ko tayi zina ba, kamar yadda manazarta har da maluman musulunci suka
faɗa, daga cikin HANYOYIN RASA BUDURCI akwai
1. SANANIN FITAR AL'ADA: ma'ana fitar jinin al'ada
me nauyi me yawa yana iya tafiyar da budurcin mace, Amma ba duk me zubar jini
mai yawan gaske ke iya rasa budurcinba Abin nufi dai ana lissafa hakan a cikin
hanyoyin rasa budurcin.
2. TSALLE TSALLE: mace tana iya rasa budurcinta
idan tana da 'dabi'a ta tsalle tsalle musamman lokacin 'kuruciyarta ko a
lokacin da take budurwa to budurcin yana iya tafiya a dalilin tsalle tsallen ko
guje guje.
3. TU'KIN KEKE: budurci yana iya tafiya ta hanyar
tu'kin keke ga 'ya mace.
4. ƊAUKAN KAYA ME NAUYI:
budurci yana iya tafiya ta hanyar ɗaukan kaya ko wani abu mai nauyi ga 'ya mace.
5. HAWA DOKI: budurci yana iya tafiya ta hanyar
hawa doki ga 'ya mace.
6. ISTIMNA'I (BIYAWA KAI BU'KUTA BATA HANYAR AURE
BA): budurci yana iya tafiya ta hanyar istimna'i ga 'ya mace.
7. CIWON SANYI INFECTION: budurci yana iya tafiya
ta hanyar ciwon sanyi na infection ga
'ya mace. dadai sauran wasu hanyoyin.
Wasu matan ma gaba ɗaya Allah maɗaukakin sarki baya halittarsu da budurcin.
Da wannan nake bata shawara kawai taji tsoron
Allah ta tsarkake niyyarta kuma ta nemi taimakon Allah akan Allah ya rufa mata
asiri sannan ta dage da addu'ar Allah ya bata miji nagari domin idan ta fifita
lahirarta akan duniyarta Sai Allah ya zaɓa mata maji wanda zai fifita tarbiyyarta da
kamun kanta sama da rashin ganin budurcinta bayan sunyi auren, Amma idan baki da kamun kai da tarbiyya kuma baki da
addini to idan akayi rashin sa'a kika rasa budurcinki ba ta hanyar banza ba to
sai mijin ya zargeki da rasa budurcinki ta hanyar da bata dace ba a sakamakon
munanan 'dabi'un da kike dasu.
Akarshe iyaye kuma musamman mata waɗanda 'kaddara tasa akayiwa 'ya'yansu fyaɗe suyi 'kokari su bawa yaransu tarbiyya ta islama sai Allah ya rufawa
yaran naku asiri koda mijin ya fahimci cewa sun rasa budurcinsu tun kafin aure
to bazai munana musu zato ba ma'ana bazai kawo cewa ta rasa budurcin ta hanyar
neman maza ba, Amma idan yaranku basu da kamun kai baku basu tarbiyya ta islama
ba sunita kawai suka sanya a gababa to tabbas zasu iya haɗuwa da 'kalu bale koda kuwa basu kasance masu bin mazan banza ba tun
kafin ayi musu aure.
WALLAHU A'ALAM
Zauren Fatawoyi Bisa Alkur'ani Da Sunnah. Ku
kasance Damu...
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